The Sacred Flower That Wants to Work With You: Ylang Ylang in Ritual and Daily Life
Ylang Ylang: The Oil of Heart, Harmony & High Vibes
Let’s talk about ylang ylang—an oil that doesn’t just smell like tropical heaven but holds deep spiritual power for the heart, mind, and soul.
I didn’t just fall in love with this oil because of how gorgeous it smells (although, let’s be honest—that sweet, floral scent is dreamy). My connection to ylang ylang deepened when I had the absolute privilege of visiting the Young Living farm in Ecuador just a few months into my journey. And babes... I’m not exaggerating when I say I was hit with a literal wall of fragrance every time I stepped outside. There were thousands of ylang ylang trees, and their energy? Alive. Humbling. Almost otherworldly.
What blew my mind even more?
Every single flower is hand-harvested—no machines, no shortcuts—because only mature blooms deliver the full spiritual and therapeutic benefits. And get this: the women on the farm are famous for harvesting the most flowers the fastest. Why? It’s believed their feminine energy is naturally in tune with the plant’s essence. And honestly, once you work with this oil, you’ll get it.
This plant is alive.
It’s powerful.
It’s sacred.
And it wants to be in communion with you.
Why Ylang Ylang?
Spiritually, ylang ylang is a heart-opener. It invites in love, compassion, emotional healing, and that deep sense of inner harmony that we’re all craving. It also helps balance masculine and feminine energies, easing emotional blockages and inspiring creativity. Think of it as an energetic reset button for your spirit or that maternal, grandmother energy that gives you a warm hug when you need it but still has that zest when you need a bit of a nudge.
Practically, it freshens your space and masks funky odors (pet owners and toddler moms, I see you). But it’s doing more than just cleaning the air—it’s calming your nervous system, reducing stress, and helping you breathe again.
Physically, it has gentle sedative properties. It can lower your heart rate, release muscle tension, and help you physically unwind.
Mentally, it’s like a quiet best friend who knows when to help you slow your racing thoughts. It softens overthinking and brings focus, clarity, and calm.
Ritual Use: Bring Ylang Ylang Into Your Spiritual Practice
This oil isn’t just for diffusing while you clean. It wants to be part of your sacred space—your rituals, your prayers, your moments of quiet connection.
Here are a few of my favorite ways to use it:
Ritual Anointing: Before meditation or spiritual work, anoint your crown, heart center, and the bottoms of your feet. It grounds you, opens you, and elevates your energy all at once.
Chakra Work: Apply to your heart chakra and crown chakra to activate energetic flow and emotional healing.
Sacred Gestures: Rub a little into your palms, cup your face or heart, and take deep, intentional breaths. Use this moment to center yourself and open your heart.
DIY Roller Recipe for Spiritual Alignment
Let’s blend ylang ylang with two powerhouse oils—frankincense and bergamot—to create something truly magical.
Spiritual Alignment Roller Blend
Ingredients:
10 drops Ylang Ylang – heart-opening, emotional healing
5 drops Frankincense – grounding, spiritually clarifying
5 drops Bergamot – uplifting, emotionally balancing
Carrier oil (like jojoba or fractionated coconut) to fill a 10ml roller bottle
Instructions:
Add essential oils to your roller bottle.
Fill the rest with your carrier oil of choice.
Cap and gently roll between your hands to blend.
How to Use:
Apply to your pulse points—wrists, neck, heart center, and even behind your ears—before meditation, prayer, journaling, or whenever you need to ground and reconnect. Breathe deeply and set an intention as you apply.
So…
Ylang ylang isn’t just another pretty smell—it’s a spiritual companion. Whether you're working on self-love, emotional healing, creative expression, or just want a moment of peace in your day, this oil shows up. It speaks to your heart, steadies your mind, and holds space for your spirit to expand.
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So if you’ve never used ylang ylang beyond the diffuser... now’s the time to let it work with you.
Let your practice be sweet, strong, and full of heart.
